God has allowed the clarity and conviction that I need to not leave a snarky comment, to dry up.. Im saying that outta love and also saying it truly saddens me to see many of you have hardened your hearts. . Elder Mickey Friedrich then urged the church not to try and judge whose version of events is right or wrong. 1 Pet 2:25 Watermark Community Church is an elder-led congregation. Our church has an elder-type rule that is healthy, but I know of churches that have had an elder-type rule that is not so healthy. Both of these practices are, in my opinion, unhealthy. Theres no independent authority (like a congregational vote or a higher denominational officer) that can remove an elder in this government structure. Amazing indeed! The only fees were for the materials we used. Even now, her parents (who worship there) refuse to talk to her or visit her children, simply because she was dutiful enough to report on the pedophile acts of a man who used to work at Prestonwood. Mind Games The Bizarre & Controling Culture of You can tailor it to your groups needs Its where two or more are gathered not where two or more thousands are gathered. He could have thanked his friend for his generosity, and politely declined the gift, suggesting he would love for the proceeds from the resale of the house be donated to a local homeless charity instead. they portrayed it as Todd having the support of the elders and full steam ahead. He walked with an air of superiority that was disgusting. Smarmy Thesaurus that is, if we keep Jesus Christ as part of the equation, with an understanding that more is incumbent on leaders than on others. Give a gift of $30 or more to The Roys Report this month, and you will receive Escaping the Maze of Spiritual Abuse by Dr. Lisa Oakley and Justin Humphreys. They gossip. Todd Wagner is a guy that would jump in a foxhole with me with the bullets are flying, and I for him. She has never seriously considered getting involved with the church beyond that, but has expressed to me that it is quite difficult to actually get connected at Watermark Church because everything is centered around MEMBERSHIP and COMMUNITY GROUPS and you cant have one without the other. The elder team is interdependent of each other, creating a system in which it is impossible or highly difficult to discipline or remove any one elder. He counseled my former fiance and after several meetings with him my fiance broke up the engagement and I was left devastated. Maybe because I have not had a negative experience with elder rule I do not see it as a problem. I have no comment on the Cabo thing; but I will say, the church was opened to anyone and anyone during the snowstorm, event the kids playhouse for children to play. Watermark exists to be and make more fully devoted followers of Christ, looking to God's Word as our only authority, conscience and guide. Watermark Community Church is a nondenominational evangelical megachurch based in Dallas, Texas . Its all sunshine and roses till you see it firsthand. I also know of churches that do not use this model that are both healthy and unhealthy. Not every word from a person in a pulpit will always be perfect considering that they are imperfect humans and will admit it. Before you Sign. Once you see it, you cant unsee it. He began to consider that he was in a cult. He comes back, preaches, and the elder board is moving forward with reinstating him and Leventhal has qualms about it. Im still waiting for more transparency but doubt we will get if from Wagner as that pride runs deep. The initial corporate fraud is in fact the membership agreement itself. Todd was my counselor at Kanakuk Camps for a summer. Visit us at 9:30 or 11:00 am CST on Sunday . You cant find any. As the CG leader, I went first. Church leaders concealed sexual abuse of young children, lawsuits allege. I assured those who wanted to speak out with their stories that I would not identify them or use any details in my post that could be used to identify them. it simply looks very bad. University Park has the advantage though of a much lower tax rate for obvious reasons. This process is called Community Formation (formerly GroupLink). Still havent found a church I like since. I wonder what is considered a lavish lifestyle. I wonder what is considered a humble enough lifestyle to please all the rest of us looking in and offering our opinion about something we probably do not know enough about Who aint very happy. In the video, Wagner said that the clarity to step down was not hasty, adding that the discernment process had started a year ago. Shame on you folks. I went to a church with a broadly evangelical membership statement coupled with a specifically Calvinistic, and specifically young earth creationist, teaching statement. Watermark Church does not believe that single ladies & gentlemen should be in coed community groups. Wowza, what does Whoopie have to do with this? Or you perfect? Ill also go into more detail about how Watermark Church does resemble a cult, and how some of their teachings are harmful and potentially abusive. Came off as legalistic trolling. Kind of smarmy too., You use some strong name calling, words . Some of the most notable settlements are described below. I received some emails from former Watermark Church members who wanted to tell their stories, but were hesitant to share too much online, for fear of repercussions, or as I refer to it, fair game. He hides behind the church to bully people whether in the church or outside. Regardless we know Romans 8:28 maybe its a season of 2 Tim 3:16-17. and oversee the spiritual interests of our church body. If you dont fill out the form you can leave easy if your just quiet. What you need to know about Church Membership Covenants., The Aftermath: Stories from Former Watermark Church Members, The Aftermath Part II: Stories from Former Watermark Church Members, Family Ties: How Watermark Community Church is Alienating Families. Kind of smarmy too. Watermark, a fast-growing nondenominational church in northeast Dallas, says the case involves accusations of adultery, a wife who wanted to save her marriage, a husband who sat on a board of a national Christian organization, and another woman who works for another church. This drum beat often is driven by pride, immature leaders thats been placed to seven themselves. Why do you throw a stone (more likely without looking at yourselves first). Im also a bit a sad with respond of David (elder) who is in the leadership role to show the love with staring at the congregation (may be because of challenges). 5,280 were here. Forgot account? Below are screenshots of their membership covenant. Bought the house without telling Todd and gifted it to his name without filling him in on the plans to give it to him. This is absolutely nothing like a Joel Osteen situation. I bet some of you, dont attend or are part of the church, Jealousy amongst many of you I can smell from here. Also I probably would be off my depression meds. But, you provide NO evidence, NO situations Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. There is so much judgement on here it has to hurt the heart of God. While he was pastor at another church in Dallas he followed this same doctrine of sin and follower of Jesus Christ. Best wishes to the church members, though. Please would you please explain a bit more about this take on Christs death. Also, any comments with profanity, name-calling, and/or a nasty tone will be deleted. Who Will Pay for the SBCs Abuse Reforms Over the Long Term? Many churches won't consider an openly gay man or woman for the clergy. When this article was written, He springs off of that definition into how true followers of Jesus might be considered a Jesus-cult and how is that a bad thing? I automatically defended the leaders and staff, and also automatically discredited the victims with pre determined notions the victim was not telling the whole story. It was a class before the main church service where people around the same age as you sat in a room, listened to a bible lesson, maybe interacted a bit, shared prayer requests, took up a small offering, held hands and said a closing prayer. When he stepped into an executive pastor role a few years back he didnt like that his replacement (JP) was more poly than he was so he didnt allow him to pastor/lead. Read More. His Grace is given to everyone, lets say even if He wasnt saved (lets say if he was one) have you prayed for him? Smarmy Dictionary For much of Wagners speech in the video, Leventhal did not look at Wagner, but stared straight ahead. He then applied the words Paul used to describe his apostolic ministry in Acts 20:26-32 to his own tenure at Watermark: With a clear conscience, Im going to say this to you, Wagner said. The Dallas ISD board of trustees approved the sale in late August; records show Watermark paid $211,000 for nine acres of building and bare land off Second Avenue a steal, no matter the. Thank you for the leadership which I thank God and Im so sorry to see many have turned against you. This crook has got to go. on The Aftermath: Stories from Former Watermark Church Members, Youth Volunteer at The Village Church Confesses to Sexual Abuse of Minors. Did he stay to minister to anyone in need? Amy Smith of the blog Watchkeep has documented her experience there, and it bears much of the hallmarks of a cult. Definitely they are important to Christian theology, but they fall within a spectrum of orthodox third-rank doctrines. He was then the most arrogant and disrespectful person imaginable. Pray snd ask the Lord for that, sure many here are upset, but not many know what has taken place fully, you judgmental hypocrites. Why wouldnt the devil try to tempt and discredit a Christian leader whos been respected by so many and positively influenced so many? Having said that,Read more . Log In. But not everyone wants that, and for those people there are lots of other churches that offer community groups, small groups, life groups, etc. The lessons were unifying and not surfacy. If we believe that, we should also have a desire to please God, and want the way we live our lives to reflect that desire. There are 2 Todd Wagners in Dallas. Wagner said he is excited about what God is going to do at the church in its next season and urged the congregation to obey their leaders. The reason for this is because, as an elder, he will be responsible for teaching others. Every argument you put forth seems to be based on your subjective opinion based on your speculation, assumption, and judgement.. Watermark encourages people to confess their sins to one another and to admonish faithfully but thats because thats what the Bible tells us to do as believers.. insincere; smooth-tongued, slick; greasy, oily, saccharine; Ashley Ruiz alleges in a lawsuit that a member of the International Churches of Christ sexually molested her when she was . Another requirement for membership is that you find an area in which to serve in the church. He found my blog while researching the similarities between Scientology and Watermark Church. This was the same concept as we moved on to adult Sunday school. Different guys. The womans story you shared sounded like her personal interpretation of events that has no factual evidence to back it up.. We areRead more . Very humble of you. These resources are found in Appendix V and Appendix VI at the end of this case study and in the clarifications given by Watermark in the section Watermark's Response to the Nation. Todd uses God to accomplish his goals ofRead more , We briefly visited WM; I quickly told my husband, this place is the cult of Todd and will implode without him. Thats not Todds fault, but no thanks. Just because you havent personally experienced or have personal knowledge of these things happening does NOT mean they didnt happen to someone else. He has people who fund his life so no donations are used for that purpose and so he can fully focus on running the mission.. do you have knowledges that Todd is spending money frivolously? Yet it turns out they are getting people toRead more , Hi to all, Ive been a member of Watermark for over three years, went through Re:Generation and now co-lead a community group. If youd like a suggestion for a charity outside of our church well gladly help you. They dont even take a collection in church! I know him on a first name basis, as I do some of those elders on the stage. Not Todds decision but good try on the poor stewardship bit. Per Todd Wagner I was not the right person or the right fit or whatever he thought. Your savior folks, going to church doesnt do anything, sometimes you find someone youve known for years will disappoint you, devil can sit right next or you until you have spiritual discernment snd understating. I was a messed up kid at that time and Todd was the worst counselor ever. Incorrect. How? It also means sharing your entire financial portfolio and giving away the freedom to make any life decisions apart from the community group. Wow Andy, you got to do more than just Google the name brother. . The elders at Watermark, along with Wagner and Leventhal, announced the resignations at services yesterday. The man and his wife were Watermark members. Does anyone know if the Re:Engage marriage program that Watermark started is worthwhile? It is the Lord Jesus who is in control after all folks. Not that difficult, really. There is clearly some issues, but isnt Lord bug enough to handle it, even at the worst of Todd missed the boat? If you dont want to share about your finances you dont have to. Below are screenshots of their membership covenant. Regardless I loved your passion and pray that Holy Spirit would cover you and lead you in the area that needs correction. Darren, heres what I see are the problems with Elder-Rule church government. I verified it. AGAIN, I have absolutely NO proof and its pure speculation. He had no recollection of ever having seen or met you before because he was so self absorbed. A lower court has already ruled that the church is free to release private information about its members. At the beginning of each year our membership goes to zero. Todd loves and worships money and attention. 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