Macdonald was elected vice president and walked away happy. Address 99 Biltmore Avenue, Rye, NY 10580. And I want to understand my emotions all of them especially why, after more than three and a half decades, I still have this smoldering anger at what happened and my response to what happened (or should I say my unfortunate, frustrating, and maddening lack of response) when I went to see Superman at the country club in the mid-1980s. Sam Snead took the $5,000 first prize, beating out soon-to-be greats ByronNelson and Ben Hogan, among others. And as you can read in the essay, the fact that I was silent has been a smoldering fire within me for decades so Im very glad I was able to release this piece out into the world. It was there that the first National Amateur Golf Championship was held in October 1894, when L. B. Stoddard of Saint Andrews defeated Charles B. Macdonald of Chicagoone of the best golfers of the time and later known as the father of golf-course architecture (he designed Sleepy Hollow Country Clubs courses, among many other great tracks). Copyright 2023 by Westchester Hills Golf Club. The blithe ignorance and the way the edict, Dont act too Jewish, slid so smoothly off her tongue still smolders in my mind to this day. 914.723.6000 In 2012 Troon Golf Management was hired and our membership took on a large project to renovate the clubhouse, halfway house, outside patio and pool locker rooms. My parents werent only not Italian and Catholic. His fellow Scot, Robert Lockhart, had brought some hickory-shafted clubs and gutta-percha balls back from a business trip to their native land. The trick in life is to learn when to and when not to deploy that armor.. all the while knowing that human failings inevitably mean we cannot get it right 100% of the time. Public. 123 North Street, Harrison It not only has an interesting version of the Biarritz but also holes such as a Capestein, Alpsberg, Redanowitz and the Schmear. He played in the inaugural Masters Tournament in 1934 and finished second in the PGA Championship to Ben Hogan in 1948. Ah it was a different time. Willow Ridge underwent even more transformations. I think the way we treat others is very telling of our role models and parental figures in our formative years. Many thanks to the writers who have shared their work with us and have helped create a supportive online community for Jewish writers. The 75-room mansion includes a ballroom, library, formal dining room, and 18 guest rooms, as well as the golf pro shop and locker rooms. I am invited when I visit Greenwich. The first Westchester club to stage a fully recognized national championship was Ardsley Country Club, which hosted the third US Womens Amateur in 1898. It opened a door for youto all the past struggles of your people. The story taught me a very important lesson. The Club decided to build a new fireproof clubhouse with an internal sprinkler system. The first time I heard the expression to Jew one down, was from my former mother-in -law. It even had me guessing at the classmate who so wounded you. Here are some more photos. Jessica drew me in at the first sentence and kept me holding my breath until the last word. Anyway, your blog post was quite successful because it evoked memories and feelings of those two life experiences and your description of your family life resonated and was vivid. YP, the YP logo and all other YP marks contained herein are trademarks of YP LLC and/or YP affiliated companies. The Bedford Tennis Club added golf in 1896; Scarsdale Golf Club opened in 1898; Waccabuc Country Club in 1912; and Blind Brook, where President Dwight Eisenhower was a member, was built in 1915. How coincidental! The A.W. You learned a life lesson and were given a perfect memory full of literary device. Great golf course, great caddies who know the course, greatmore, Greenwich Country Club was founded in 1892. Golf Roars in the Twenties I will go back and sign in to comment there as well. I didnt say a word. This classic A.W. @Regina Your comment juxtaposing childhood innocence when it is met by ignorant comments really hits home. Thank you for sharing. Prejudice and ignorance sometimes reveal themselves at unexpected times: from the mouth of a stranger, a work associate, or even a friend. Thus, we are taken by surprise; ambushed, as it were. And she asked me if I wanted to join her so that we could see Superman in person. It moved to Westchester in 1904 on the site currently occupied by Metropolis, then to Purchase in 1922. The simulator also features a multi-sport function offering a variety of sports such as soccer, baseball, hockey and more to indulge interest for all. New York City protected us. WebWhats available to members at Greenwich Country Club? Unlike me, she craved approbation whereas I rather rejoiced in the opposite. Peter Alliss was the pro there for quite a few years. No use in being harsh on oneself in these moments. No shame in that!! In a raucous trial, the prosecution lost the case on a narrow interpretation of the statute that forbade disturbance of the peace of the day, thus establishing every Yonkers golfers legal right to pursue par whenever he or she chooses. Leslie White, manager of the Wykagyl Country Club in New Rochelle, said there were no Negro or Jewish members but added that "it so happens that none have been proposed." Location. Westchester is where the greatest golfers of every age, from Harry Vardon and Gene Sarazen to Jack Nicklaus and Tiger Woods, teed it up in the most important tournaments of their day. They played an exhibition over three improvised holes with John Upham, and golf in Westchester sprouted from there. I really enjoyed your piece. Search results are sorted by a combination of factors to give you a set of choices in response to your search criteria. It was really different time. Bill Shakespeare had it right. Barney, I'm glad you enjoyed your day at Briarwood; I couldn't find the link on your post. Belmont CC outside of Boston is a Ross course that was recently renovated, I believe. A beautifully written, moving, powerful piece. Never one to let such slips go unchallenged, I missed such a cue about six years ago when my wife and I invited a seemingly charming woman we met in her used bookstore to visit us in our home. Dazzled at the opportunity, and thinking only of Superman with his wavy black hair and chiseled cheekbones, I was thrilled to be her guest. Soon, I realized we werent doing that anymore. Its funny (ironic?) Conformity was boring, and I never wanted boring. Box 229 Purchase, NY 10577 Im ashamed of myself and my inaction. Daughter of an immigrant Jewish mother from the foothills of the Himalayas and a South Bronx born Puerto Rican Jewish father, Jessica Ursell is a veteran officer of the United States Air Force, poet, attorney, and progressive political activist. This is an essay to read and reread and to share with young people of any faith. This informs me that in addition to being rightly sensitive to attacks however subtle we Jews are a thoughtful people who search for Truth and answers. They must have members from other denominations/ethnic groups, right? It is important to feel like other people understand what youre going through as well. They were Bohemian and liberal. You cant form the thoughts. Willie and Mike Turnesa, two of seven brothers who made an indelible mark on Westchester golf, were affiliated with Knollwood one as an amateur, the other as a professional. All rights reserved. My heart goes out to the younger you and what you endured. I mentioned it to my Dad who simply replied with a shrug Thats the Irish for ya! (unkowingly teaching me that two can play at that game). I've enjoyed many delicious meals here. Irony indeed. And what did she mean anyway? Project MUSE is a leading provider of digital humanities and social sciences content, providing access to journal and book content from nearly 300 publishers. Automatic and visceral. John Reid was elected the clubs first president. Your memory is far greater than a superfluous one. many thoughts and memories from youth to adulthood. My kids were horrified, and it was a complete shock to me that we were living amongst people who had that impressed upon them, although given the current situation in the US it probably shouldnt have been. 1500 Baldwin Road, Yorktown Heights Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. How much Jew is too much? Private, Photos courtesy of Sleepy Hollow Country Club. I was so moved after reading Jessicas essay It really hit home for me. In 1895, John Reids wife, Elizabeth, and several other Saint Andrews women leased land on North Broadway and established Saegkill Country Club. 300 Underhill Road. Probably, your guilt blocked it out. Thanks. At the club a spokesman said the matter could be discussed only by Jerome F. Healy, Jr. , secretary. Greenwich Country Club states they are your home away from home and that's exactly the vibe you get. Regardless of the decade, the club has been home to several players who made their marks on the game, including one Ben Hogan, who was an assistant pro at Century. Here are some more photos. ACDelco provides high-quality car parts for all major vehicle systems, as well. It was here that the first national amateur championship was played, not to mention the first national Open tournament that included professionals. Id already dealt with a few of my husbands less enlightened acquaintances, and had no problem saying anything. It was not something skimming the edges of our skin but bone deep. We ended up hanging out mostly with the Protestants or with families who summered in the town, who were more cosmopolitan. Learn More. I reconnected with extended family, attending and planning huge family seders. In the early 1980's, the first irrigation system was installed on the golf course. Julien J. Soubiran, former president, referred the matter to the club office. The Archive of the Jewish Telegraphic Agency includes articles published from 1923 to 2008. Sometimes you can find a way to express it, later, sometimes the people, places, events are gone forever. You could assign Century Country Club in Purchase to the earliest dates of Westchester golf history, since it was originally organized in 1898 in the Throgs Neck section of the Bronx. I like to go back and unravel events and have them make sense. (LogOut/ So much can be learned from our own personal history, even if it means experiencing anger and regret when looking back on past situations. @nuritanderson Dear Nurit, Thank you so much for your comment and understanding my anger. What was right? He was there. If you wish to go international, in Leeds, England, Moor Allerton was predominantly jewish. ), my classmate and friend, turned to me and said, Gee, you dont seem Jewish. I know she meant it as a compliment but, boy, did that ever sting! Member Lawrence Van Etten, a prominent civil engineer who designed many residential communities in New Rochelle and later the original course at Wykagyl, laid out the first 18 holes at Knollwood, a par-69 test at 5,305 yards. At the same time we cannot kid ourselves that the heroes in our families we admire so much, like you, had their own moments of indecision and missteps. This phenomenon is happening throughout the country. Me: Karl Marx wrote about country clubs? Mr. Healy said he did not have the authority to answer such questions and that only "the top man, " the president, Joseph J Lordi, could supply the information. I did not go to that event, but I vaguely remember him coming to town and the surrounding buzz. 914.271.7600 Never before nor since have I remained silent in the face of injustice or aggressions micro and macro. Stunned into silence, I failed to respond. The fifth county course, Dunwoodie Golf Course, is actually the oldest, having been established in 1906 as a private club that claimed Mary Pickford and Douglas Fairbanks Jr. as members. I woke up as they say. The modern terms microaggression and macroaggression are completely inadequate when framed against the backdrop of the worlds most horrific offense. Learn More. For a long time I didnt fully understand what had happened, and out of shame I kept it to myself. Me: Yes, dad, a country club. You were a guest. All other marks contained herein are the property of their respective owners. The minutes of that historic meeting are preserved in the clubs archives, the Peter Landau Library, along with a fabulous collection of books, records, and artifacts including early golf clubs and balls. That is until I heard that Christopher Reeve was going to film a public service announcement for the Special Olympics at one of the country clubs in our town. The Cliffs Climbing + Fitness 12 Health Clubs By AriFan04 His assistant (who was under 18) was also amazing, well poised, and interested in making sure we understood climbing 2. What about the other point of view? The Senior PGA Tour (now the Champions Tour) made Sleepy Hollow a regular stop from 1986 to 1993. The 1920s is also when most of Westchester Countys public courses were built. With unspoiled wetlands, natural elevation changes, and abundant wildlife, its no surprise that course designer Gary Player calls GlenArbor his masterpiece. Over the years, the club not only changed its name but moved several times until settling in its present location, the former home of Frank Jay Gould, in 1966. Filmmaker D. W. Griffith was a founding member, and Babe Ruth joined soon after. The members werent happy with the way their course compared to nearby Winged Foot, however, so they retained A. W. Tillinghast to create a new layout. Im so shocked this type of thing happened to you as well although I suppose I shouldnt be. Id been married for a couple years already. It wasnt as though she had given me her edict weeks before so I would have the chance to respond and, hopefully, decide that even Superman wasnt worth compromising my integrity and my sense of self. This is a painful memory, but I think you should forgive yourself for not speaking up and asking what your friend meant by telling you not to act too Jewish. You were young. Saxon Woods Golf Course in White Plains was added in 1931. All rights reserved. Americas oldest golf club maintains a balance between turn-of-the-century tradition and modern golf on a course designed by Jack Nicklaus. What are people saying about country clubs in Westchester County, NY? "One of the oldest golf courses in the country. Tillinghast and several legendary designers' marks on the course remain intact. I wonder if there is a protestant/catholic divide in Scotland or Ireland? Thank you for sharing this wonderful essay, Jessica. I often read your posts and find comfort that even though antisemitism is very prevalent today, the adults in the room are trying to stop the hateful rhetoric and educate those who have tainted and dangerous views. The club has two 18-hole courses designed by Walter Travis as well as a parthree course and extensive practice facilities. The story drew my interest from the start and kept it to the end. Westchester Hills Golf Club. @Sara Kandler Thank you so much for your thoughtful comments on my piece. Westchester Country Club. Your innocence ripped from you, your story is now available as a voice for those of us who have felt voiceless, just as you did. I would not be me without being Jewish. That sh*t wouldnt fly today, so dont judge yourself too harshly. It is very well written. 2023 jewish telegraphic agency all rights reserved. 914.738.2730 I wonder what their home life was really like and am thankful that I grew up in a family with deep roots to the Jewish religion, that denounced any kind of prejudice against anyone. Dining Rules. In 1953 our membership decided to add a swimming pool to our list of amenities offered. I wanted never to have to face unconscious prejudices against Jews or to have my children face them. If you have the opportunity to play golf here or enjoy a meal, I know you will agree. Shames Jewish Community Center on the Hudson Health Clubs Sports Complexes 5. Unfortunately, the story feels close to the heart and not uncommon. One day Patty Prendergast (wow, I still remember her name from over 60 years ago! Preferred listings, or those with featured website buttons, indicate YP advertisers who directly provide information about their businesses to help consumers make more informed buying decisions. 234 Bedford Center Road, Bedford Hills Our new pool facility features a Junior Olympic heated pool, kiddie pool area, luxury chaise lounges & day beds, along with our Pool Grill that provides some delicious poolside offerings. Sharing such a pivotal moment with the world was not easy, but confronting the actions you took or did not take in such a public way reveals your truest character. We think, we ponder, we discuss, and we try to figure out the why of things. That said, some years ago I arrived at the sad conclusion that its next to impossible to educate those who choose ignorance over enlightenment. I very much enjoyed reading this piece. 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